Look, I'm like really not the person to be talking about this. I haven't acted completely naturally since the third grade because people are douchebags and that makes other people put up fronts. But eventually you find people who aren't douchebags you can call friends and you realize one day they're still gonna love you, no matter how weird you are. And that helps with the giving too many shits thing. Everything else is just... I dunno. Learning how to let yourself get hurt.