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[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

Christ, I can't believe the day's finally come when I'm asking you assholes for advice.

So there's this girl I've been hanging out with and we've gone to like, a concert and shit, and we have a lot of similar interests I think but I can't figure out where I should ask her on an actual date. I hate the whole dinner and a movie thing, no good bands're in town no offense Dazzler I'm pretty sure you're not her style and museums... I don't know. She has kind of a, uh, exciting lifestyle? So I feel weird asking her to do normal stuff. Then again maybe she'd like the change. The point is, where the hell do we go and what do we do/see/whatever? Fuck you, okay, I didn't do a lot of dating while I was running from the fucking government.

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[meowminx]

Speaking as a girl with an exciting lifestyle, I know I appreciate a quiet night now and then.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

So the dinner and movie thing wouldn't necessarily be lame?

[meowminx]

Not necessarily, no. Sometimes you need a little normal.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

I hope so, cause that's really all I got. At least in comparison.

[prettymorlock]

Do something random? Like skydive, or sail, or hell, take her out for really good sushi!

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

I'll check to see if she likes it. Dunno about the other two. Maybe if we were older. Actually I have no idea how old she is, but whatever.

[prettymorlock]

Movies can be fun, but you can't really talk or anything in them. There's places that offer paintball or laser tag, which can be fun on a date. But food's usually a good option.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. And those sound good to me, but uh, the exciting lifestyle thing? Might make them a step down from what she's usually doing. Maybe.

sorry for threadjack ^_^

[iamjaimesommers.livejournal.com]

[interjects almost reflexively] No! Not skydiving.

Ah... never mind. Sorry to interrupt. Though sailing sounds really nice. Or there's kayaks you can rent and things. Taking any boat on the Hudson sounds pretty adventuring.

totally fine!

[prettymorlock]

What's wrong with skydiving?

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[elecdouble.livejournal.com]

[but lmao Pyro you're so cute]

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[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

[aaaaaaaa get out get out you see nothing :O]

[love-and-lace.livejournal.com]

Well no matter where you take her, all girls like presents. So don't forget that.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

I'm pretty sure she has lots of money and can buy whatever she wants, so what would you suggest.

[love-and-lace.livejournal.com]

Oh, she's richer than you. That makes it a little harder.

Flowers, candy and poems are always good.

[localiritant.livejournal.com]

Go hang outside the 7/11 for a few hours till something comes up. Or drive around with inappropriate music blaring out the windows at 1 in the morning. Then go to the beach, only shitheads and tourists go during the day.

Eventually you'll find something you can vandalize/take apart or a good make out spot.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

I like that. This is good. You're good at this.

[localiritant.livejournal.com]

Years of experience, dude.

Or a year. Or six months. Or however long I dated that fuckhead back home.

voice; Reilly

[bedeviledspider.livejournal.com]

So not an expert on this kind of thing, but I don't think doing something normal sounds that bad. A little normality can be a nice break from an "exciting life". Or so I've heard.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

Well, that's what I hope. I really hope that's the case.

[bedeviledspider.livejournal.com]

You really like this girl, huh? I mean, that's kind of obvious, but... Anyway. Good luck, man.

[voice]

[superspeeds]

You could try asking her what she might like to do.

[fuckrobertfrost.livejournal.com]

... Yes. True. [he sounds a bit testy, annoyed he hadn't thought of that]

[superspeeds]

Alternately, I've recent had great success with asking someone to coffee. It's mundane enough, yes, but the conversation can make it very interesting.

[allhailrobotnik.livejournal.com]

You and me both.

But I'd say the best thing is to just take her out driving. Or if you're fast enough, running!